Sex is an embarrassing thing for me to talk about or even write about. I blush every time I attempt it, and yet it is a very important aspect of life. I recently watched a video on YouTube that helped me to understand some things I had never realized.

I have been indoctrinated. I have been lied to. All those people I trusted through the years, the experts, the magazines, even TV and movies, they have all lied to me. They told me that lust was the answer. That I needed to fantasize and watch porno and touch myself to have better sex. That I needed stimulation and release.
They lied.

Lately, I had been hearing more and more about people who were no longer satisfied with real sex because of their addiction to pornography and masturbation. I could not figure out what they were doing wrong. I mean, that is what all the media sources tell us to do for better sex, not worse. That is what the scientists and experts say. Even psychiatrists prescribe porno for sexual issues. Of course, all those people can’t be wrong… Can they?

Well, apparently they are. And it is not just me saying it. Right wing, left wing, scientists and laymen are all starting to notice a pattern here. The more lust and fantasy, the more porno and masturbation, the less great real sex people were having.

We are physically retraining our bodies to not have an appropriate reaction to real sex. We are so over stimulating ourselves that we can’t enjoy the real thing anymore.

I do not want a life like that. I want to enjoy my partner, not a photo. I want to be with a person and feel something, not watch a video and be alone.

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